Your Path to a Quick Resolution
Mediated divorces are often resolved in a matter of weeks, rather than months or even years.
Read MoreShalom Family Mediation
The Path To Your Best Possible Divorce Starts Here
I'm ready to startWho We Are
“Peace is not the
-Ronald Reagan
absence of conflict,
it is the ability to
handle conflict
by peaceful means”
Shalom Family Mediation has one primary goal, to help people achieve and maintain Shalom - peace. Conflict between loved ones, whether a spouse, a parent, or a child is painful, and unfortunately all too common. At Shalom Family Mediation, we believe that the healthiest path to conflict resolution does not include asserting the will or dominion of one party over another. On the contrary, research has shown that assertion, dominion and other similar tactics prove to be inflammatory and counterproductive. Our approach to conflict resolution - be it over betrayal within a marriage, between a parent and child, or related to divorce - is rooted in guiding the parties to adhere to their own principles while also recognizing the principles of the other party. We focus on replacing conflict and hostility with understanding and respect.
Contact UsOur Services
Marital Mediation
Work through challenges and strengthen your relationship
Divorce Mediation
Conflict-free settlement in all areas of a divorce, and solution-focused support and guidance during a confusing and painful time
Divorce Coaching
Personalized guidance and support in navigating the complexities of divorce effectively and with dignity during a confusing and painful time
Testimonials
Following Mr. Rothstein's guidance helped me restore and rebuild my relationships, and gave me the tools I needed to co-parent effectively with my ex husband post-divorce.
Very professional, compassionate and caring. Highly recommend Betzalel as your early, first stop if you are even just considering divorce. Getting smart early makes all the difference.
The work that my husband and I did with Mr. Rothstein in 3 sessions produced gave us better communication tools than what we had accomplished in over 6 months of traditional marriage counseling.
The tools that Mr. Rothstein taught me continue to help me to de-escalate conflicts that come up. I truly appreciate him for his caring and compassion for my family.
One hour speaking with Mr. Rothstein made me feel better about what my future could look like after divorce than 50 hours working with my attorney.
More Information
Your Path to Avoiding a Costly Divorce
Couples who mediate their divorces spend an average of 40% less than those who litigate.
Read MoreYour Path to a Custody Agreement That Works
Research shows that the negative impact of divorce on children is minimized when parents mutually agree on custody and parenting time.
Read MoreYour Path to Financial Settlement
Couples who mediate are healthier financially than other couples, and are more likely to enjoy financial independence and stability.
Read MoreAbout the Founder
Betzalel Rothstein
Betzalel Rothstein is a veteran of the communications industry with a proven track record as a successful manager, negotiator, and trainer. He dedicates countless hours to private coaching sessions with people going through divorces, dealing with challenges in their marriage, or difficulties with their children or other family members.
Betzalel is passionate about family mediation and conflict resolution. This passion inspired him to train as a family mediator at The Center for Mediation and Training under the instruction of Dr. Kenneth Neumann & Steven Abel, Esq, who collectively have more than 75 years of experience in the field. Betzalel is a proud father of nine children and lives with his wife and children in Highland Park, NJ.
Interested in scheduling a session?
Reach Out